Dear Campus Chick,
I dated this guy named Aaron about 4 years ago when I was 17 and we didn't go out for long.
After we broke up though we decided to be friends but that didn't happen because we had friends pulling us apart and starting rumours to the point where we both hated each other. But on the weekend he was having a new years eve party and I ended up at it. I was so scared cause I though that he was going to kick my ass when he saw me. But he didn’t he hugged me instead he was pretty drunk though.
But the next night he had another party and when it ended we actually had a few small conversations and he is so hilarious and I started to remember all the reasons why I was friends with him and why we dated. Now I have all these feelings coming back up and I think I want him again, cause I can’t stop thinking about him. but I know that it probably won’t work out because of some of his friends from the past. What I’m basically wondering is if its normal to have these kind of feelings come up after so long? Or is it weird? and what should I do?
Tiffany - VA Tech
Dear Tiffany,
Yes, I do think that's normal, and not weird at all.
Sometimes we meet people and hit it off really well, then later can't understand why we ever liked them. Other times we hit it off with people, become temporarily disillusioned with them and once we've gotten a better perspective, we have no problem figuring out why we once cared about them so much. I would try to stay away from over-analyzing and freaking out.
Maybe your friendship will be mended and maybe it will turn romantic again...just be in the present in this one, and don't worry.
April (Campus Chick)
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